NLP SINGAPORE – NLP Anchoring and the Law of Attraction

Posted by on Sep 9, 2009 in Hypnosis, NLP Singapore, NLP Success & Life Tips, Self Improvement |

NLP Anchoring and the Law of Attraction

What is the law of attraction and how can NLP techniques increase and enhance its effectiveness? The following article will show the basic elements of the universal law of attraction and how it can be applied to your everyday life.  The second half of the article will demonstrate how to use and create an NLP anchor.

When you understand how to use your anchor, you will see how this new anchor can be used to accelerate the law of attraction process. By following the steps in the anchoring technique, you will be able to have access to any emotional state that you desire in any situation.

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NLP Anchoring and the Law of Attraction

By Jacob McDonald

What is the law of attraction and how can it be affected with NLP?

The Law of Attraction is the universal law that the focus of your thoughts becomes the reality that you are living. What you focus on is attracted to you. As one of the spokesman for the law attraction Mike Dooley states “Thoughts Become Things”. The principles of the law of attraction have been used in people’s lives all over the world to bring success, relationships, personal wealth, and white jaguars. The law of attraction, when used in a person’s life, literally makes dreams come true.

How can you begin to use the law of attraction in your own life? The law of attraction is easy to apply to your life and some might say that is seems to be too simple to work. Many people do not know that they are actively taking part in the law of attraction on a daily and moment to moment basis in their lives already. To begin to use the law of attraction you may use the following steps.

1. Clearly in your mind think of what it is that you want to attract into your life be it a new home, a car, a specific relationship or personal wealth.

2. State to yourself that you have the thing that you are attracting now.

3. Next, take 5 – 10 minutes each day and visualize yourself with the attracted thing, or event as if it were happening now. Feel the feelings and see the things that are congruent to having your dream now.

4. Continue this exercise once a day and allow your unconscious mind and the universe to align their selves with your will.

To clarify some of this process I will explain some of the steps in greater detail. When you are deciding what you are going to manifest into your life be very specific. Make sure when you are stating what you are attracting to yourself that you state it in the positive. If you have bills racking up do not focus on not having bills, focus and state that you have abundance and in this case be specific about how much abundance you are looking for.

When you visualize your wish happening in the present, make it so vivid to yourself that you can feel the excitement and gratitude of having this thing now. Make a note to include yourself in your visualization. If you are in want of a new car, see yourself in the car; see your hands on the steering wheel of this car. It is important to see yourself in the vision so that your unconscious mind and the universe understand you are not merely attracting seeing this new vehicle, but that you are indeed driving and have ownership of this new amazing dream. Your unconscious mind does not know the difference between what is visualized and what is actually seen. The results of this are that your unconscious mind will begin to make adjustments in yourself to make your focus your reality.

Be encouraged as you progress with this process that as you remain focused on your goal, it will come about. Continue to visualize everyday even though it may appear the results are not happening as quickly as you would like.

NLP can accelerate the law of attraction

To Reiterate; the key points of the law of attraction are to feel the intensity of the feelings that accompany you having your dream and secondly to vividly visualize your dream as a current reality.

For the first and most important aspect of the law of attraction, which is to feel the emotions and feelings of this new reality coming to pass, a powerful NLP, Neuro-Linguistic Programming technique can be used called anchoring. Anchoring in short, is attaching a neurological response to an external stimulation. An example of this is when you are in love with someone and you see their number form onto your caller you may notice your heart begin to race before you even answer the phone. Another example of an anchor that is used powerfully in marketing is through the use of music. You may feel a certain emotion when listening to specific songs. In recent car commercials I have seen the use of a variety of popular songs from the 70’s. These songs are used knowing that the target audience has an emotional response to them. The principle behind this is to attach the summer fun you felt in the 70’s to the fun you can feel in this new vehicle.

Now that you have an understanding of an anchor as an external stimulation that triggers an internal state I will explain how this can be used to enhance the process of actively attracting things and events into your life. Anchoring can be effectively used to trigger the states of excitement and joy as you want to apply to your dream and its fulfillment. In the event of your visualization you will now be able to trigger the powerful emotions that are the driving force of creating reality.

How do you go about making an anchor? There are many ways to make an anchor; I will layout several strategies to follow and you can choose the one that best works for you. First off what you are looking for in a reality creating state is: gratitude, joy, excitement and ecstasy. These are a great place to start to show your unconscious mind and the universe that this is something that you really want.

One method you can use to gain immediate access to these states is through music.

1. Find a piece of music that you particularly like, a piece of music you have access to every day is obviously preferred.

2. Now that you have your piece of music ready to play, put it on repeat if possible and begin to play the music.

3. As the music is playing what you are going to do is begin to allow yourself to experience some powerful memories.

You will think of a time when you felt gratitude for any reason. See yourself in that very moment, seeing what you saw and feeling what you felt. Make sure that you relive these memories in the clearest way you possibly can. At the moment you feel the feeling intensely immediately shift your attention to the next memory you will be using. Now find memories for each of the feelings you will be anchoring including: joy, excitement, and ecstasy

4. When you have relived several memories and felt the multiple feelings you are looking for you can turn off the music.

5. Now that the music is off, you need to forget about the whole experience and think of something else, such as what your address is, what your mother’s maiden name is, and what the model of your first car was.

6. Now it is time to test the anchor. To test an anchor it is very simple, all you need to do is introduce the stimulation again. In this case turn your song on again, and notice that you can feel the feelings of Gratitude, joy ect…

7. If you do not feel the feelings as intensely as you would like replay the song again as many times as you wish and attach as many powerful memories as you want. You may find yourself having a whole lot of fun doing this because you will start to remember things you haven’t thought of in a long time, think of the things that bring a smile to your face and a warmth in your heart.

Another method to anchor emotional states is by physical touch. This is my personal favorite when working with another person because it is more intimate and I feel more of a connection between us as we are working together to overcome specific problems or bringing out desired emotional states. This method is also powerful when doing this work on your own.

1. First you are going to choose a place on your body that you will touch with a light to medium pressure. (Note: I would recommend an area on your knee for this technique. A key point to take into consideration is to touch the same place with each emotion and to apply the same pressure each time. Many people ask if it has to be exactly the same place with exactly the same pressure. In response to this, be as close with both location and pressure as you possibly can. Do this technique to the best of your ability and you will see beautiful results.)

2. Allow yourself to experience some powerful memories. Just as stated in the third point to the auditory anchor you will clearly remember a time for each emotional state.

3. When you feel the emotion begin to build get ready to touch the area you have chosen, but be aware of your timing. Touch the area at the moment the emotion is the strongest. You will notice you can feel the emotions more intensely by increasing the details of the memory you are replaying. Hold the pressure at that area for a brief moment, 1 – 2 seconds will be perfect.

4. After you have anchored one state follow this up with thinking of some information like what did you have for breakfast, or how much did you save on your car insurance?

5. Now repeat the process for each emotional state that you are anchoring.

6. When you have anchored all of the states clear your mind and think of something like; when was the last time you went out to dinner?

7. Now test the anchor by touching yourself in the same place with the same pressure. You will feel the emotions flood in, and you may experience some of the memories after firing the anchor off.

There is a way to create an anchor using an image of any sort. To do this follow the last procedure for creating a physical body anchor, but instead of touching yourself look at an image at the peak of the feeling. You can do this with an image on your computer, a poster, a figurine or a flash card that you have or that you will construct.

Now that you have this powerful anchor you may use it to accelerate the law of attraction in your life. To do this, follow the law of attraction process, and during your 5 – 10 minute visualization period you can create the emotional state needed to cause your unconscious mind and the universe to respond by firing off your anchor. You can take this a step farther and also fire off the anchor when you are thinking of this process working in your life. You will have a twofold effect of not only attracting your dreams into your life using strong positive feelings, but you can also increase the speed of this process by attracting the success of your use of the law of attraction by using the strong feelings on your thoughts of it working.

This anchoring technique is a very powerful way to access any desired emotional state. You can use this very technique to anchor any emotional state to a song, an image, or a touch. If there is a time when you think a specific emotional state would be desired you can use anchoring to do this.

Enjoy this amazing technology and watch your life transform into your wildest dreams!

Jacob McDonald, CHT

Clinical Hypnotherapist, NLP Master Practitioner

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NLP SINGAPORE – Principles of Success in NLP

Posted by on Sep 7, 2009 in NLP Introduction, NLP Singapore, NLP Success & Life Tips, NLP Techniques |

Principles of Success in NLP

NLP is a fantastic technology which is all about expanding your life by giving you more choices, allowing you to learn quicker and become the person that you want to be.

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Principles of Success in NLP

By Rintu Basu

NLP is a fantastic technology which is all about expanding your life by giving you more choices, allowing you to learn quicker and become the person that you want to be. NLP is not magic however. There are certain principles that if you followed you would benefit from using NLP techniques. If, whenever you are using NLP you use the below principles then you cannot go far wrong.

1st Principle of Success

What is your outcome? Essentially why are you using the NLP technique? What do you want to achieve? It is essential that you have a very clear vision of what you want to achieve and why you are doing what you are doing. If you have only half formed hazy ideas then it’s certain that you will lack focus or worse still get all sorts of results that you were not actually looking for.

2nd Principle of Success

This one seems self evident. Take action. As mentioned before NLP is a fantastic technology but its not magic – its not going to aid you in achievement if you don’t take action. If you do take action then NLP will speed up your development and cut the time it would usually take.

3rd Principle of Success

You need to know whether or not your action is taking you closer to what you want. This is connected to the first principle – if you don’t know what you want then you will have no idea of whether or not you have got it. Take action then evaluate whether or not it is taking you in the direction that you want to go.

4th Principle of Success

If your actions and behaviour are not getting you any closer to what you want then you need to be flexible enough to change either your behaviour or the outcomes you are looking for.

5th Principle of Success

You can have a very clear idea of what you want, be taking action to get what you want and have the ability to evaluate whether or not your actions are taking you closer to what you want but if you don’t feel good about it then the chances are you will not reach your target. You need to ensure that you are operating from a state of resourcefulness when achieving your goals

If you want an analogy to remember the above principles by then consider a guided missile. First of all the missile will have been programmed with a target. It will then be launched and sent on its way towards the target. As it goes towards the target its internal computer will be constantly evaluating its height, speed and direction ensuring that it is heading in the right direction. Now the missile is a machine granted but nothing is going to stop it from achieving its target.

Sit down now and think of a goal – it doesn’t have to be big – it can be something very simple – one of those every day things that you never get round to doing. Go through the above principles.

These are fundamental success principles and on any good NLP practitioner course you could seriously ramp up your skill levels in any of these areas. For example:

Imagine you had a goal setting formula that was so powerful that you just had to think of a result that you wanted and your unconscious mind was already solidly working to get you there creating behaviours, habits and beliefs that support your goal.

How about you had a process that allowed you to model and learn skills in half the time it normally took. If your goals involve new learning or skills development this could expand your results very quickly.

There is also a lot to say about having emotional control to feel motivated whatever the situation, stay focused whatever the distractions and feel good even if the results you are getting are less than ideal.

Any good NLP course will give you tools for all of these areas. If you had this skill set imagine what happens to your success formula when you put it into place.

Rintu Basu is the only NLP and Hypnotic Persuasion Trainer in the UK. Having worked with businesses, the police service and the financial sector. His latest venture is developing NLP in Scotland through good quality public NLP training courses.

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NLP SINGAPORE – NLP Can Help Overcome Postpartum and Perinatal Feelings of Dispair

Posted by on Sep 3, 2009 in Hypnosis, NLP Singapore, NLP Success & Life Tips | 2 comments

Nlp Can Help Overcome Postpartum and Perinatal Feelings of Dispair

Perinatal depression or postpartum depression can be the result of many components. Because of the potential severity of the consequences of this illness, women diagnosed with depression should seek treatment immediately when symptoms develop. Two beneficial approaches that do not use medication or enormous expenditures of time and money are hypnosis and Neuro-Linguistic Programming.

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Nlp Can Help Overcome Postpartum and Perinatal Feelings of Dispair

Author: Alan B. Densky, CH

Everyone experiences moments of sadness. In most cases, these times last for only hours or days. Nearly twenty percent of the world’s population, however, are diagnosed with major depression, which causes depression that lasts for weeks, months, or longer. These moods cause the person to develop problems functioning in work, family, or social relationships, which can become disabling.

Females who experience signs of depression after they become pregnant may be treated for perinatal depression. This illness can develop any time after pregnancy begins, or any time thereafter, until the baby is a year old. Most commonly, however, women who encounter this illness after the child is born are diagnosed with postpartum depression.

Perinatal depression or postpartum depression results from several factors. These factors can be physiological. For instance, women with a personal or familial history of major depression or other mental health problems are very likely to experience perinatal depression or postpartum depression. Furthermore, hormonal changes in postpartum mothers, such as decreases in estrogen and progesterone amounts, can precipitate this condition. After childbirth, thyroid problems can cause symptoms of depression such as exhaustion, irritability, and despair.

At times, mental depression results from psychological factors. Women often feel fatigued and stressed in learning to manage the needs of the new family member. These feelings are sometimes magnified by a lack of support from family, friends, or significant other. Financial problems can also assist in causing postpartum depression.

Perinatal depression and postpartum depression often have serious results for both the mother and her new child. Worry and depression can prevent a mother from bonding fully with her infant or being capable of meeting her child’s physiological and psychological requirements. This can further compound the woman’s sense of worthlessness, guilt, and low self-worth.

The baby is also affected by the new mother’s issues. Failure to bond with his or her mom can result in the child to develop trust problems in emotional relationships throughout life. In addition, children who do not have their physiological or psychological requirements met often do not grow and develop properly. This condition, known as “failure to thrive,” can be quite harmful or even deadly to the baby.

Perinatal depression or postpartum depression can damage the entire family. The spouse or significant other may feel ignored or powerless to decrease these depression symptoms. This can irreparably wound the partnership. Other children in the family often have similar emotions, and develop academic or peer problems as well.

Depression harms the whole family. For this reason, women who develop perinatal depression or postpartum depression ought to get depression treatment as soon as possible. Several treatments are available, including counseling and medication treatments. Medications, however, are often dangerous for nursing babies, and may yield unpredictable results due to the wide hormonal fluctuations a woman has during these hectic times. Moreover, typical counseling approaches can be lengthy and expensive.

Two techniques for dealing with depression that do not use medicines and often quickly demonstrate dramatically effective results are hypnosis and Neuro-Linguistic Programming, or NLP. Traditional Hypnotherapy is most effective for clients who are effortlessly entranced or able to accept ideas without feeling a need to critique or understand them. Ericksonian hypnosis is very effective for people who tend to overanalyze. These approaches aid individuals to relax and get rid of stress.

For persons who tend to be more critical or analytical individuals, NLP is usually more effective. With this technique, trained professionals give clients depression help by coaching them to restructure their thought processes. This strategy can, very literally, assist a person think past the depressive state and overcome it.

Individuals can overcome depression by developing NLP tools such as anchoring. They are coached to remember moments when they felt happy and in control of their situations. Recalling the memory renews these emotions. Clients are coached to put two fingers together while experiencing these feelings. The unconscious mind connects the touch of the two fingers with the emotions. Thus, the finger touch becomes an “anchor.”

Then, if the person begins to feel stressed, he or she triggers the anchor by touching these identical two fingers together again. This brings back emotions of self-control and creates empowerment.

By using another approach known as the Flash, individuals discover how to think away harmful feelings. They program their unconscious minds to automatically exchange positive thoughts for negative ones. As negative thoughts arise, the mind automatically exchanges them for positive thoughts. After learning this strategy, individuals find it almost impossible to conjure up negative thoughts!

Summary: Perinatal depression and postpartum depression often have harmful results for a mother and her new infant. The remainder of the family is also deeply affected by these conditions. Due to the potential severity of the results of this illness, new mothers with depression ought to get treatment as soon as symptoms begin. Two very effective strategies that do not require medication or great outlays of time and financial resources are hypnosis and NLP.

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About the Author:

Alan B. Densky, CH specializes in stress and depression related symptoms as an NGH certified hypnotherapist. During his 30-year career he has helped thousands of clients. He supplies hypnosis depression therapy CDs. Visit his Neuro-VISION self hypnosis site for the hypnosis article library, or watch his free video hypnosis collection.

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